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Buying an engagement ring is difficult.  Right?  No.  Buying the right engagement ring is actually very simple.  Sadly, most men just do not “get” it.  Some men think that diamond rings are all the same, that size is the only consideration and even the flashier, the better!  But if this is how you intend to choose your future bride’s engagement ring, you are going to buy something too expensive, buy something she hates or even risk the whole marriage by showing her just how inconsiderate you can be!

So what is the right way to buy an engagement ring?

The secret to buying the perfect ring for her is to buy something special to you.  Choose something with your heart.  Before you disappear and say that that is just too woolly, think about it.  Your heart chose your girl.  It knows her better than your head.  So before you start thinking how much you have to spend, whether your mates will think you are under the thumb already, or even what your mother thinks would be a suitable diamond ring, ask yourself this. 

Which ring “feels” right? 

Listen to her when she shows you a picture of a ring in a jewelry catalog.  Look at the jewelry she routinely wears.  Is it white gold jewelry?  Or yellow gold jewelry?  Is it flashy, classic or contemporary style?  Select rings that fit only these criteria and then ask yourself, does it feel right?  If your heart says yes, buy it!

Or you could design your own engagement ring at a reputable jeweler!

A gift of fine jewelry is perfect for any woman.  So when a man wants to please his lady, he needs to head to the jewelry store; not the discount store or the bargain bin, but the fine jewelry store.

The best way to choose a piece of jewelry is to pay attention to what she wears and what she says.  Do not buy her a bracelet if you never see her wearing bracelets, unless she comments she would love a bracelet because she does not have any!  In this case, you have a great idea for a gift.

If you have absolutely no idea what to buy, gold or pearls are really a safe bet.  Choose white gold, rose gold or yellow gold but make sure you get it right! Show a salesperson your lady’s photo and let her guide you what jewelry to buy.

Be sensible.  Buy jewelry in proportion to the woman or she will look ridiculous!  A petite woman can look silly in chunky jewelry and a thin gold chain will be practically invisible on the neckline of a larger or taller lady. 

Rings are special and are best reserved for a committed relationship.  But you need to get the size right.  Too small and she may think you are telling her she needs to lose weight!  Too big and it will be uncomfortable to wear.

Earrings are usually wonderful gift ideas, if she actually likes earrings!  Check whether she wears pierced or clip-on earrings and make sure you buy the right ones.  Why not sneak a peek at her current earring collection when she is not watching?

And when you are ready to buy, remember you can get the best jewelry bargain when you buy online.